Hebrews 6:19-20 We have this hope as an anchor for the soul, firm and secure. It enters the inner sanctuary behind the curtain, where our forerunner, Jesus, has entered on our behalf. He has become a high priest forever, in the order of Melchizedek.
Have you ever felt hopeless? A deep sense that things are terrible and will never get better. Unfortunately, I think we have all felt this before. Whether it is a sense of hopelessness in your career, finances, our nation’s politics, or in a relationship, hopelessness is a direct result of living in a fallen world.
Tamar is the first named women in the lineage of Jesus. She was the daughter-in-law of Judah, one of the twelve sons of Jacob. Her full story can be read in Genesis 38 and is sandwiched in the narrative of Joseph. After Joseph was sold as a slave to Egypt, Judah left his family and emersed himself in the pagan culture of the Canaanites by marrying a Canaanite woman. Judah had three sons and the oldest, Er, married Tamar who was also a Canaanite. Er died because he was wicked (Genesis 38:7) and then, Tamar was given to the second son, Onan, to carry on the family line since Er never had children. However, Onan, intentionally did not allow Tamar to get pregnant because he too was also wicked so God also put Onan to death (Genesis 38:9-10). Judah’s youngest son, Shelah, wasn’t old enough to marry Tamar, so Judah sent Tamar back to her father’s house to live as a widow until Shelah was of age for marriage.
Time went on and although Shelah grew up, Judah didn’t keep his word to Tamar. The time came for the annual sheep shearing so Tamar disguised herself as a prostitute to lure Judah to sleep with her (Genesis 38:14-16). This was a common practice for the Canaanite men to sleep with cultic prostitutes so their harvest would be blessed. As a pledge for Tamar’s payment, Judah gave her his signet ring, cord, and staff as collateral for payment.
Tamar returns to her father’s home and her widow’s clothes. When the news came out that she was pregnant, she was confronted with her sin. She explained that the man responsible for the pregnancy is the owner of the signet ring, cord, and staff. These three items would be like three forms of identification for us today. There was no denying the items were Judah’s and he realized what Tamar had done (Gensis 38:26). Judah, not keeping his word to care for Tamar after the death of his sons, pushed Tamar to take matters into her own hands. Without a husband and children, Tamar was left to live as a widow for the rest of her life. In the patriarchal society back then, that would have been a desperate, vulnerable, and hopeless place for a woman.
It can be hard to see the hope of Christmas in Tamar’s story and after giving birth to twin boys, Perez and Zerah, she was not mentioned again until Matthew 1:3 in the lineage list of Jesus. Though Judah displayed an enormous lack of character, God used this man to later become the royal line of the Israelites. Tamar was a Gentile, Canaanite women who used deception and prostitution to carry on the family line. Despite the human sin of both Tamar and Judah, God, in His providential working, used this mess to bring forth the Messiah. Though Judah showed a lack of character leaving Tamar stranded and hopeless, Jesus became the Lion of Judah and the Hope for the hopeless through this very family.
No matter the hopelessness you may be feeling, there is One who gives us hope in all circumstances. Romans 15:13 says, “May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit.” God is able to work the most tangled, chaotic, and hopeless situations for our good and His glory. Because of Jesus, we have hope that eventually all things will be restored and made right. The same God who made a way for Tamar is the same God who can make a way for you and for me.
As humans, we can make a mess of our lives, but God’s ultimate plan will come through in the midst. Friend, no matter what hopeless situation you may be walking through, we can lay it all down at the feet of Jesus. It is at His feet that we experience forgiveness and freedom from sin. The life He gave on the cross is what frees us from the hopelessness and the pain of this world. Even if it may be hopelessness created by your own choices or actions like in Tamar’s story, God is willing and ready to give us freedom from those choices and the shame or guilt we carry from those choices. We just have to say yes and let Him.
This Christmas season, cling to this hope. Remember, if things are not what you hoped for this year, we have a Savior who is coming back to make all things new. Just as God’s promises came to fruition in the birth of Jesus, His promise to return is also true. This hope is an anchor for our souls.